Jennifer Arnise

Healing From The First Relationship The One with your mother

Healing From The First Relationship The One with your mother

Jennifer
Arnise

Helping you heal from the most impactful relationship you’ve ever had so you can have you’ve always wanted.

Meet Jennifer

Jennifer Arnise is a speaker, author, and host of The Black Mother Wound Podcast, where she leads direct, unfiltered conversations about the emotional impact of mother–daughter relationships—especially within Black families.

She is the author of Fuck That Cape, a bold call for women to stop carrying roles, expectations, and responsibilities that were never theirs to begin with. Her work challenges the belief that love requires self-sacrifice and instead teaches women how to choose themselves without guilt.

Through her signature framework, The Six Levels of Autonomy™, Jennifer helps women understand how their upbringing shaped their identity, emotional patterns, and decision-making—and how to begin living from self-trust instead of obligation.

Her approach is direct, validating, and rooted in lived experience. She speaks to women who have spent their lives being “the strong one” and are ready to experience a different kind of strength—one that doesn’t require self-abandonment.

Jennifer is known for delivering conversations that don’t just inspire—but shift perspective, challenge long-held beliefs, and move audiences into real change.

Looking for a speaker for your podcast, panel, virtual workshop, or live event?

Jennifer Arnise is a bold, truth-telling speaker who delivers
relatable insights with clarity and depth. Whether she’s on stage or behind the mic, she engages audiences with powerful storytelling and practical wisdom they won’t forget.

From healing the mother wound to reclaiming your voice and authority, Jennifer makes complex emotional work feel accessible and leaves audiences feeling seen, empowered, and ready to move differently

The Podcast​

Brought to you by iHeart Radio and the Black Effect Podcast Network, The Black Mother Wound podcast is a bold, truth-telling weekly show that tackles the taboo conversation of Black daughters carrying the
silent pain of a difficult mother-daughter relationship.

Bold and vulnerable, Jennifer shares her own personal story and journey of healing with her community, always reminding them the that they aren’t crazy, making it up or alone.

Find new episodes every Tuesday wherever you find your podcasts.

The Book

Brought to you by iHeart Radio and the Black Effect Podcast Network, The Black Mother Wound podcast is a bold, truth-telling weekly show that tackles the taboo conversation of Black daughters carrying the
silent pain of a difficult mother-daughter relationship.

Bold and vulnerable, Jennifer shares her own personal story and journey of healing with her community, always reminding them the that they aren’t crazy, making it up or alone.

Find new episodes every Tuesday wherever you find your podcasts.

What the Community has to Say

What Our Clients Have to Say About Jennifer

    Myah

    Client

    Prior to working with Jennifer I struggled with hiding and shrinking when it came to work, worthiness, and putting myself first. Jennifer did the section on shame. and was so eye opening because I wasn't aware of how much of my life was based on my inner shame. My relationship with myself and my emotional well being has grown so much. I have become a lot more bold and confident. I've made a lot of progress in the way that I have seen myself in the way that I'm seeing the world.

      Adeshia

      Client

      A standout for me was being able to talk about my mother wound issues openly. This made me feel seen, validated, understood, and not alone in my experience. Since joining RESOLVE, I've noticed that I feel I show up more authentic and honest and it's very freeing for me.

        Leniece

        Client

        One of the best parts of working with Jennifer was her helping me let go of unrealistic expectations that don't serve me or my children. It's ok to embrace my my full, perfectly imperfect self with compassion and humanity which allows me to show up for my children with compassion and humanity.

          Jennifer

          Client

          The moment we identified my feeling was grief, it gave me the language to address what I felt and the courage to sit in it. I stopped over scheduling every moment and started to deal with my feelings. I would definitely recommend the class and encourage people to attend RESOLVE.

            Keisha

            Client

            I learned how to show myself tenderness and learned that it is my responsibility to mother my little girl because only me and God know what she really needs. This allowed me to practice and embrace tenderness with myself.

              Queena

              Client

              One of my biggest wins since joining Resolve has me being able to prioritize my own needs unapologetically, just being able to say exactly what it is that I want without any fear of what someone else is going to think about that.

                LaBreyia

                Client

                Jennifer made me feel seen and unashamed. Her transparency in sharing her story provided space for vulnerability and her wisdom gave me the tools to unlock a true awakening. My biggest wins have been exploring my shame dialogue, relearning how to trust myself, and re-establishing my values.

                  Janell

                  Client

                  Before working with Jennifer I was struggling with setting boundaries with my mother. The biggest AHA was knowing that healing is possible. I was also able to think more clearly about what I want, more able to put words to my struggle. And finally I'm releasing the guilt I felt for not wanting a closer relationship with my mother.

                    Kim

                    Client

                    The way the class was conducted completely exceeded my expectations! Not to mention the emotional freedom I gained from the content Jennifer presented. My mother's wounds are no longer on my shoulders.

                      Nicole

                      Client

                      Jennifer equipped us with the "why" we are trapped in our pain, and the "how" to take the necessary steps to get out for good. Then too, seeing her being a black woman overcome her pain and THRIVE was the hope I had been looking for all my life.

                        LaGail

                        Client

                        The biggest gift was being able to reconnect with "younger LaGail" and learning how to comfort and assure her. Learning how to trust myself MORE than I ever have, and just realizing that I am okay.

                          Alicia

                          Client

                          Since working with Jennifer, the tools that I have in my toolkit to be able to address and bounce back when I am in a triggering situations is definitely one the most tangible and visible growths that I've experienced.

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